Happiness in Relationships

In this talk, Bruce Di Marsico discusses happiness in relationships.

Being afraid of not having something is not the same as wanting it. We play a game that we have to move away from what makes us unhappy. Instead, we can simply move toward what we want. Why do we not simply move towards what we want? Because we believe we need reasons to be happy.

Reactive emotions to others are based on the delusion that they don’t also want to be happier. All relationship problems have to do with believing there is proof of not being loved. If we knew that the other also wanted to be happier, we could never find proof of not being loved, and so you can be happy in any relationship.

Option Method – Happiness in Relationships